Dating transgender women in public places

There are more and more guys like to date transgender women, while as far as I know, most of them are not willing to date their trans partners in public places. I'm a transgender woman, I hope to be treated as normal girls and date my partner in anywhere I want. As a trans woman, I feel less confident when that happens on me. It is easy to meet a man for transgender dating and hookup online or in real life, but it is still difficult for transgender women to meet a man who can really accept them and dating them in public places.

I want to share my experience with you guys here. I used to date a man, he was kind and friendly to me in the whole process. We met each other on a trans dating app called transdr. Every time I met a man who is willing to date with me, I would tell him that I'm trans in the first communication. The same as usual, I told him that I'm trans during the first communication. I was so surprised that he never mind I'm a trans. It seemed like I meet the right one for life-time relationship. Everything went well, and we kept in touch with each other every day. Two weeks later, we decided to meet in real life. That wasn't my first dating, but I was very nervous, because I placed great expectations on him. When we chat online, I can say that he is the best one I met. So, I prepared carefully and hoped to present the best self on the first dating.

However, everything changed before the first ts dating. He invited me to a coffee shop in a Sunday, so I dressed up to meet him. We made an appointment to meet at 6pm, I arrived at the coffee shop at 5:50. I was waiting nervously. Then, I got a message from him, it said "I'm so sorry that I have something urgent to deal with, could you please come to my house and I'll wait you here." As a transgender woman who is experienced in ts date, I've met so many kinds of guys like that. So I knew that it was an excuse to say that he didn't want to date me in public places. In fact, I could really understand him, if he had asked me to date in his home in advance. It is so common that many men don't want to date trans women in public places, since someone them just want to date for fun.  However, you should be honest, and never hide your intentions, like we are always honest about who we are. I think most of men don't want to be cheated when dating trans girls, so if you want to be treated with honesty, please show your honesty at first. There are also some men who are willing to date trans women, but they never introduce their trans girlfriend to their friends. Some of them don't know how to introduce, while others just want to keep their girlfriends as secrets and date them in private places.